As a recovered self-harmer, I’m still working through being able to accept my mistakes and perceived shortcomings. It’s by no means an easy task, but I’ve decided I’m going to make it into a tangible goal because I don’t identify with that anger and hatred. Spilling chocolate milk on myself, rock hunting, and an undying obsession with KPOP are what I identify with. Convincing myself I’m the worst writer, and person, on the planet because I thought I’d sounded like a fangirl in my first ever writing submission is not what I identify with.
If any of you lovelies have any goals you’re trying to achieve, I’d just love to hear about them in the comments below, which isn’t so crazy, and we could form a support group maybe.
Please excuse my desperate song reference, I just failed at speaking Punjabi so I might as well embarrass myself in English.